It's Party Time !

Welcome to the summer ... almost. The time where people start wearing less and the nights get hot. And for those into the lifestyle, Pride Season.

But for me, it starts the kick off of my parties that I throw. I had been doing them for a while under a few different brands but things weren't quite what I wanted. Was the type of brothers that came ? No. Was it the location ? Not Really. But I think I was really happy doing the parties due to the amount of stuff I was carrying about Gay People in General. Let me explain.

Until recently, I realized that I had always tried to conform to what I saw people gravitating toward and also what I thought people would show up to. So I did parties that were attempts to be body fests. I even through Big Boy parties. I was always nervous before the event and then would be upset when the people that said they were coming didn't come through...Yeah it was alot of stuff. Yet something for me recently changed.

I have been going through a Dating / Social Detox for a few weeks. This is simply where you do not date or attempt to or do anything social with the implications of trying to win people or friends. Well ... I can say that I have never felt more alive in my life. It is something when you begin to distance yourself from the expectations and stereotypes of the gay community and begin to see yourself as the great person you forgot you were.

I have started to really see the games and just plain bullshit that people have. The best part is that I am better able to do things that are just fun like my party.

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Yes this party will be an invitation only event for those brothers that are looking for a drama free place where they can meet and have fun discreetly. No crazies but plain fun. And that is what I know those that attend will have.

If you are a masculine, athletic man and want to enjoy a private fun time, this will be one for you. Also for those that are coming from out of town, you can crash in the suite after the party. It is not an issue here because it's hard to drive two hours or more after you have banged all night.

Well I got to get out of here but looking forward to seeing you on friday!

Dick Ross