Party Review !

I would like to thank everyone that came to the party on Friday. I must say that I was pleasantly suprised with the attendance. More that what I had planned and the quality was most definitely there. Everyone had a great time and it was nice to see brothers connecting, spanking and all of the other fun you decided to have. To all the brothers that braved through crazy Preakness traffic, I definitely thank you for coming through. In the future, I will be making upgrades to make things even more exciting and fun.

What's Next for the Party ?

Well since I have had several different types of parties, I have decided to consolidate the brands into one brand. The new party website will be available soon. We will have a private club format that will allow us to do more than the traditional party like theme parties, meet & greets in addition to other types of activities that brothers are looking for.

Another benefit of the the private club format is that it will allow those that come to the events to save money with member discounts and enable brothers to make better connections that can lead to doing things outside of the party.

I have found that many brothers do like to exchange numbers and email when they connect. So the member format will allow us to do that and even have our own social network where the brothers can chat online in real time.

But again, I would like to thank everyone that came and made the party a huge success. The next event will be listed soon on our new website.

Hint: We are going back Old School ....lol

Dick Ross

It's Party Time !

Welcome to the summer ... almost. The time where people start wearing less and the nights get hot. And for those into the lifestyle, Pride Season.

But for me, it starts the kick off of my parties that I throw. I had been doing them for a while under a few different brands but things weren't quite what I wanted. Was the type of brothers that came ? No. Was it the location ? Not Really. But I think I was really happy doing the parties due to the amount of stuff I was carrying about Gay People in General. Let me explain.

Until recently, I realized that I had always tried to conform to what I saw people gravitating toward and also what I thought people would show up to. So I did parties that were attempts to be body fests. I even through Big Boy parties. I was always nervous before the event and then would be upset when the people that said they were coming didn't come through...Yeah it was alot of stuff. Yet something for me recently changed.

I have been going through a Dating / Social Detox for a few weeks. This is simply where you do not date or attempt to or do anything social with the implications of trying to win people or friends. Well ... I can say that I have never felt more alive in my life. It is something when you begin to distance yourself from the expectations and stereotypes of the gay community and begin to see yourself as the great person you forgot you were.

I have started to really see the games and just plain bullshit that people have. The best part is that I am better able to do things that are just fun like my party.

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Yes this party will be an invitation only event for those brothers that are looking for a drama free place where they can meet and have fun discreetly. No crazies but plain fun. And that is what I know those that attend will have.

If you are a masculine, athletic man and want to enjoy a private fun time, this will be one for you. Also for those that are coming from out of town, you can crash in the suite after the party. It is not an issue here because it's hard to drive two hours or more after you have banged all night.

Well I got to get out of here but looking forward to seeing you on friday!

Dick Ross

Is Craiglist Really worth Advertising On ?

I have been watching the coverage of the Craigslist Killer. If you didn't get a chance to follow there was a guy who was 22 and he set up two dates with girls off of Craigslist who put thier ads on the Erotic Services Section. [ The same section that has led to thousands of arrests from police departments all over the country. ] Each girl was killed by him before he was caught.

What is interesting is that Craiglist is taking the " we want to help the family and am sorry for your loss route. " Which is a bunch of crock since the system has had so much media coverage for the amount of people being arrested for prostitution off the site. Now don't get me wrong.

A Hoe deserve the amount of money that they are paid. It's not easy work taking various clients, managing your advertising, answering calls, putting together pic layouts and thinking about 100 0ther things that encompass the business. So those who go into the industry most def need some pay. But I don't really believe Craigslist is the right vehicle to be advertising on.

The site gives you alot of traffic to your ad but at the same time. It also gives you alot of negative traffic from police and others that want to make prank videos on youtube. I do believe that if the site was owned by an African American, it would have been shut down a long time ago. But somehow they pull this first admendment bull crap meanwhile girls are getting hurt and people are getting arrested.

The obvious solution would be to close down the erotic services section but Craigslist knows that if they did that, the sites traffic would fall faster than Madoff's personal stock. See Craigslist built its reputation off of the escorts and massuers. They then used that traffic to get people to other sections of the site.

I do think that they should just close the section down because it's getting too dangersous to post there. I have even knwon gays to be arrested in north carolina because some cop watched the posting and met someone who posted that they were looking for a sexual hookup. And in NC sodomy or meeting for that purpose can wind your butt in jail.

Since we know the site isn't going to take it down then the providers need to take the extra steps to be safe. Just looking at the lady I can tell she broke the cardinal rule

#1. Never take a kid as a client.

Street girls will tell you that you leave the kids at Chuck E Cheese because they want it free or a discount. And freebies don't keep the lights on.

#2 Always have protection.

Most girls hire a homeboy that meets the guys first and frisks them before they get a chance to meet the girl. I have even known some girls that keep the protection in the next room.

I do believe that if she had someone who was in his face first. That person would have spooked him enough to leave but unfortunately we have lost two girls that were just working to stay afloat in this economy.

Is Craigslist to Blame ?

Dick Ross

OMG ! An Adam4Adam Fake !

Newport20717 - Baltimore Other Room - Adam4Adam

100% Fake Profile

I told you that I would post interesting things about myself and this is one for the record books. It happened last night. There was a guy who contacted me on the system stating that he was looking for friendship and to chill. Now when I am online it's usually for work but I also use it to network.

He knew my line of work because my pro ad was on. Now he said that he would like to chat which was cool with me since I am always up for a few buds. The profile said 6'3 216 33 waist and Light Skin. He unlocked his picture and it was very cute. He tells me that he shaved his head. So I have to problem with it. His picture is listed above.

I get the usual story of how much he works out in the gym and that he is looking for a friend. I am straight up about what i do and that i am only looking to network from time to time. Well he decides to come over to ' Take Me Out to a Very Nice Restaurant ' .

What shows up is a 5'9 280 Pound Wesley Snipes Black Bald Head Gap Toothed Dude coming across my lot. And to finish it off. The dudes was loud. I could hear his drunk ass from inside my apartment building. Houston was most definitely having a problem. I mean what showed up at my door was no way close to the person in the picture above. And to make matters worse, this bitch has a nerve to post on his account No Fakes!

I gave the dude his walking papers. And what was sad is that he makes things very bad for Big Men. See when dudes like him falsify thier profiles and then meet in person people don't remember the fake. They see the size of the guy and contributes to the perception many have about Big Men. If you are Fat be FINE AND THICK. But don't go out there and think that someone is going to want to be with you after you lied.

This guy talked about he didn't pay for sex. Well from the looks of him and the games he plays, I am sure he isn't getting any. So I will not use a4a for nothing other than business or if i see my members on there. Sad but when people find it necessary to play games they only add to the stress they will see in the future.

What goes around will come around.

Dick Ross

New Lacey Travel Tush Video on Site

What up?

Today was a very tiring day for me. Well I was recording a video for the site. If you don't know I love male sex toys. They are the next best thing to amish potatoe bread..lol . I bought the Lacey Travel Tush some time ago but didn't know exactly what to do with it. So I wanted to record me using for the site and then let you get the scoop before you purchase.

Man. I love that toy. I was so busy stroking that I bust like 3 nuts with it while recording. I did mangage to get some great shots that you will see on the preview and most definitely on the final video. It is something that I really had a great time with.

I am now looking for some new ideas for my Sunday video. More than likely will do a shower scene or a traditional jerk. Whatever I choose, I will make sure that you will get plenty of fun from it.

My New Donation Offer

I am starting a partnership opportunity. With you $10 monthly gift, you will get a personalized video in addition private parties and other cool stuff with me. It is a way for me to really get to know those that support me and for you to know you are really keeping me doing what I do. Being the only Thick Entertainer isn't the easiest thing to self-finance but your gift makes it all possible. Well check out my new promo videos and I will be posting more soon.

Dick Ross XL

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It's Not All Real on Xtube.com

I had to write a lil sumthin. I just created by Xtube Profile - DickRossXL . I wasn't getting much traffic the first few days but when i uploaded my pictures and video clip, the Freinds requests started coming. I was looking at the amount of people hitting me off and I noticed something strange.

Are all of the people on Xtube Perfect?

If you check out most of the profiles, the pictures are high quality photos like the kind you pay for and or photos of young 20 somethings with perfect bodies. I know I am not stupid but I thought 1 out of every 5 People were overweight. That would mean that at least 20% of the people hitting you off would be meaty. But that isn't what you find on the site.

I haven't seen very few people that look like me on the site. Yeah you see one hundred dick pics and abs all day long but I really wonder what these people look like. Xtube can benefit from people not really looking to meet off the site. Unlike Adam4Adam you don't want to post some crazy pic you know is not yours because peeps go there to meet immediately and you will get busted quick. Although there are a few dummies that insist on telling lies on thier stats.

But what I see on Xtube.com Takes the Cake. When will people realize that its better to be themselves and attract someone that likes that instead of faking the funk.

I had about 5 real people hit me off. So I guess that is the 20% on the site that's real. I know that I won't be inviting people to my party from there unless I get some real pics with a face.

Keep it Thick !

Dick Ross XL

What is a Thick Dude ?

I would like to welcome you to my Blog. Here you will find a ton of information about me, things of interest and everything in between. As you will see, I have an opinion about everything which seems to be off the wall but I enjoy being a friendly person that you would want to spend time with.

What is a Thick Dude ?

A Gym Rat with a few extra pounds. This is the simplest answer when you get down to it. Thick Dudes do work out on a regular basis but may not be able to drop the weight to get cut or desire to. Most competitive bodybuilders are thick until competition time. But in general Thick Dudes work out and are active.

I know someone is sure to ask why most of the Dudes that say they are Thick are really chubby. Well many use the term thick because its easier to identify with than putting it out there that they are just a chub or heavy weight. There is nothing about having weight if you want to be big but many dudes that use the term don't work out, exercise and really are in the Bigger City category.

What I love about Being a Thick Dude ?

I get more choices in what to eat. Don't get me wrong. I don't eat fast food or packaged foods but I do get to enjoy rice [ I really love rice ! ] and other carbs. I am in the gym at least 5 times per week. So I usually stay in the same shape year round. I wish I had it as easy as some of my homeys that can eat the entire house and still look great but my body wasn't blessed with that metabolism.

Another thing I love about being Thick is the up front aspect of it. You either like or don't. I am not trying to win anyone over. Or Be in a contest to win the affections of some muscle dude. Not Me ! I am Dick Ross and that is what you get. You are either with it or not. And that ability to be secure in myself is what really had made this transition so much easier for me.

I use to not love my size and looks. I think we all have suffered from looking at the body boys that want you to believe that life is easier with a six pack. But when you look a bit closer. They can't get dates for the most part and get judged alot on looks where people don't consider them relationship material. And as life would have it. Those same dudes that said they didn't want to be with anyone Thick call me to set up an appointment !

So I would tell anyone to start loving who you are because it's the only you that you are going to get. I am Dick and Proud to Be Thick !

Dick Ross XL

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